How hard is it to communicate? I swear! Arik and I need counseling. This whole house needs counseling!
This evening, I get an email that says some friends of ours are moving their daughter's bday party to tomorrow. Well, Aiden's bday brunch is tomorrow.
We both get the email. Arik reads it before me. Instead of making conversation and saying, "oh, hey, did you get that email from so-and-so? They aren't coming tomorrow because of the change in plans."
He gets all pissy with me because I am frustrated with the lack of conversation we have. All day I was thinking they might be coming and buy food, including them in my party count. Had Arik just said something instead of waiting for me to get the email, I could have spent less money on food.
Am I wrong for feeling this way? It's not about us both getting the email. It's about Arik wanting to talk to his wife and share tidbits of information that may or may not be important!
As the years pass, it pisses me off more and more. These days, we are so out of sync... I don't know how else to get him to see the importance of communcation. This is going to lead to our divorce...